Showing posts with label Big Bang Theory. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Big Bang Theory. Show all posts

Sunday, June 03, 2012

saturday night at the ER

I can think of a lot of better ways to spend a Saturday night.

The kid managed to swallow some small piece of metal that broke off of her aluminum pop-top can. It wasn't the loop part that you bend to pop the can open, but a small U-shaped metal piece that holds the loop to the can. I ever noticed the construction, either. What can I say, childhood (and motherhood) is full of all sorts of little discoveries.

Yes, that upside-down U-shaped piece is working its way through her digestive tract at the moment

So rather be safe than sorry, she earned a trip to the ER on a Saturday night. Joy. We were the only ones there when we walked in at 6:30 pm, but that didn't stop time from standing still and us not getting into a room until 8:00 pm where we still had to wait to be x-rayed.

Luckily the Big Bang Theory was on Room 16's TV, which was a definite improvement from the Fox news station in the waiting room. Of course, being in a hospital is just one long waiting room. Suffice it to say that the line "If we ever get out of here" from Wings' Band on the Run was on an endless loop in my head.

The little bit o' metal didn't show up anywhere on her x-ray, so we were told to assume it will pass through with whatever else is in her intestines at the moment. I'm supposed to keep an eye on what she does over the next day or so and make sure there's no blood (poop detail!) and then follow up with her pediatrician on Monday, although I can't really guess what he would be able to do. They said something about him checking her out by pushing on her stomach.

As emergencies go, so far this has been a little one. I hope it stays that way. Apparently kids swallow all sorts of stuff. Pins, needles, other sharp objects. They gave me a standardized print-out about it, "When your child swallows a foreign object." I remember putting a penny in my mouth once as a kid, but it tasted so foul I spit it out. I never would have considered swallowing it.

We were so happy to get our exit papers, but both felt so bad on our way out — three HOURS after we first arrived — when we saw a family with a little baby girl and a man who was in pretty severe pain from gout who were still sitting in the outer waiting room. Both groups had come in a little after we had arrived. Saturday night at the ER
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Thursday, April 05, 2012

you've come a long way baby?

Vanity Fair has set its sights on television actresses for its May issue, on sale tomorrow. Photos of the cover are leaking all over the internet. The cover's novelty is that next month is a "special TV issue," focusing solely on women, as opposed to the usual film stars featured on the cover. What is most shocking and surprising is how par for the course this cover has turned out to be. Why is it necessary to depict a bunch of actresses, nude except for diamond jewelry, in bed together as a cover? Does that really say, "great actresses?"

L-R: Julianna Margulies, Claire Danes, Sofia Vergara, and Michelle Dockery, bottom right
All you have to do is look at the eyes of the actresses to see that they aren't exactly comfortable with this choice of depiction, either. All of these women play strong characters on their television shows, many of them the lead character. Why can't they be photographed as strong women too, rather than merely objects of desire? Any of these ladies would look just as sexy fully clothed as they do in lingerie or just a silk sheet. Being sexy and beautiful is undoubtedly part of the profession, and something that actresses certainly try to portray and maintain. But to be promoted merely as a sex object, after all the hard work these ladies have put in, seems to be rather short-sighted, and even insulting.

It doesn't get any better on the fold-out photo. Now clad in underwear at an all-girl pajama party, seven more actresses (a little more ethnically diverse, but per usual for Vanity Fair, relegated to the interior of the cover) lounge for the cameras, but the focus is not on any of their abilities on screen, but their breasts. It's impossible to imagine this same cover shoot with television's male stars. Ashton Kutcher, Kiefer Sutherland, Steve Buscemi and Ed O'Neill naked, under one big white silk sheet? The stars of The Big Bang Theory in their underwear? Actually that might be kind of funny, if done with tongue firmly planted in cheek, and they were in Superhero undies. But none of these photos for the May issue were taken with a sense of humor.

Clockwise, L-R: Emily Deschanel, Archie Panjabi, Grace Park, Kerry Washington, Kat Dennings, Emily Vancamp, and Emmy Rossum
Vanity Fair and photographer Norma Jean Roy just don't get how the opposite of empowering this all is. To underline the contrast between a docile babe waiting for our gaze, and the characters they play on TV:

Julianna Margulies, The Good Wife — bouncing back from a scandal involving her husband, she starts fresh as a junior lawyer in her firm

Claire Danes, Homeland — a CIA officer assigned to he counterterrorism unit

Sofia Vergara, Modern Family — gorgeous and funny, but also a strong and loving mother

Michelle Dockery, Downtown Abbey — a strong, independent woman who should by all rights inherit her father's estate, but because of the unfair laws of inheritance of the time is forced instead to make a "successful" marriage

Emily Deschanel, Bones — a forensic anthropologist and crime author

Archie Panjabi, The Good Wife — in-house investigator for the law firm

Grace Park, Hawaii Five-O — police officer and former professional surfer

Kerry Washington, Scandal — a former White House communications director who now manages her own crisis management firm

Kat Dennings, 2 Broke Girls — works as a waitress while dreaming of opening a cupcake shop

Emily VanCamp, Revenge — a woman who lives to avenge her father, wrongful convicted as a terrorist

Emmy Rossum, Shameless — is raising her family, something far beyond the abilities of her deadbeat father

That's an impressive list of strong characters played by accomplished actresses. Too bad this cover negates all of that. Many actresses have nudity clauses written into their film and television contracts, but maybe those contracts don't include magazines. Looking at all of these lovely ladies I couldn't help but think of a recent article that I read in the New York Times Magazine about the actor Peter Dinklage, who is best known for his role as Tyrion Lannister on Game of Thrones. Dinklage, a dwarf, had struggled many years as an actor before he had his break-through in the film The Station Agent, and achieved huge success and recognition on television in Game of Thrones. But no matter how hard it got, he refused to ever take a job as an elf or leprechaun or anything else he considered demeaning.

Hollywood definitely has a double-standard with its actresses. But one wonders what other, more creative, images we may have been graced with if these ladies had banded together, and like Dinklage, had said no. Having nude actresses on its cover has become de riguer for Vanity Fair. Isn't it time for a change?
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Friday, March 09, 2012

the big bang theory

It's been on seemingly forever, but I have just recently been catching up with The Big Bang Theory in syndication. It's the typical wacky friends set-up so familiar to sitcoms: a group of people are in and out of each other's lives and apartments. Viewers are familiar with the formula from I Love Lucy to The Golden Girls to Seinfeld. But The Big Bang Theory is also a sex comedy, with dialogue at times a little raunchy for the early hours it now airs in syndication.

The Big Bang Theory has the prerequisite breakout character, in the tradition of Fonzie, Urkel, and Kramer — Sheldon. Jim Parsons, who plays Sheldon, isn't just good with a punchline (although he is very good with those), but he manages to imbue the uptight scientist with maybe not humanity, but at least vulnerability. Sheldon, for all of his posturing and claims to genius, is also at times just a little boy who misses his "Meemaw."

Sheldon loves cats
Although Sheldon is definitely the reason why The Big Bang Theory is as successful as it is and has so many people tuning in, the show isn't only about funny Sheldon. The writers are smart enough to create characters that don't just become straight men for his jokes, like what happened to Happy Days star Ron Howard and the rest of the cast, but have made each character funny and quirky in their own right. The show may have started out with Kaley Cuoco's Penny as the straight person to a bunch of geeky guys, but it has evolved since its early seasons. Penny has been a lust object, girlfriend, friend, and even den mother. Sheldon's roommate Leonard, played by Johnny Galecki, can be the viewer stand-in, but can also be as geeky and silly as his buddies.

Leonard, Howard and Raj with Big Gulps
Galecki may also be responsible for the semi-recurring roles and welcome appearances of some of his former Roseanne cast mates — Sarah Gilbert as scientist and some-time girlfriend Leslie Winkle and Laurie Metcalf as Leonard's mom. Howard (Simon Helberg) may have started out just being the requisite sex-obsessed nerd of the show, but his relationship with his overbearing mother and his girlfriend Bernadette (Melissa Rauch) have added another dimension to his character — and his completely consistent sense of fashion, although not always attractive, is impressive. Kunal Nuyyar plays Raj, at first shy to being almost catatonic around women, to later feeling comfortable enough around Penny to consider her a friend. One of the best characters on the show is Sheldon's "contractual" girlfriend, Amy Farrah Fowler, played by Mayim Bialik.

Amy Farrah Fowler and Sheldon
Like most situation comedies, The Big Bang Theory isn't really about anything. It's just a half hour spent with some pretty amusing people. Watching it in syndication proves that the overall arc of a season, usually determined by whether Penny and Leonard are an item or not, doesn't really matter. As long as Sheldon seeks out Penny by rapping on her door three times, or asking her to sing "Soft Kitty," it will still be fun to watch.
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